Unless you had a cool upbringing, chances are, the birds and the bee’s conversation probably didn’t go over instructions on how to purchase your first vibrator. And since sex-ed certainly doesn’t offer a buying guide or how-to instructions for enjoying toys, knowing what to purchase and how to use it can be intimidating for first-timers. It’s quite a shame actually, because whether you’re teaming up with a partner or exploring your body’s sensations solo, sex should be about pleasure, after all.

Here’s where we come in. Consider us the cool friend you can compare notes with and openly ask questions. We know a thing or two about sex toys, so we’ve created a handy buying guide for your first vibrator: types of vibes, some things you need to know, and recommendations, of course. Let’s get vibing, shall we?

If you’re putting a toy onto or into your body, you want to make sure those toys are made from high-quality, body-safe materials, right? The problem is, researching sex toys isn’t always a straightforward task, and manufacturers don’t always clearly disclose important information on their packages. (More on that later). Not to mention, there’s a wide variety of materials that can be used to make toys, from silicone to rubber to metal to even glass. So, you may be left wondering, why is material safety important when it comes to sex toys, what materials are safe, and how do I even begin to sort through all the clutter?

Here, we’ve helped to demystify the different types of materials commonly used in sex toys, and we’ll dive in deeper to explain why it’s essential to purchase high-quality, body-safe toys.

Whether you're ready to try anal sex or still thinking about the possibility, you might be wondering, where should you even begin? In this post, we're sharing everything you should possibly know about anal sex, right down to the nitty-gritty details.

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